bless your heart
phrase, idiomRegionalSouth
A American English slang term. Browse all American slang.
What it means
Genuine sympathy for someone's misfortune.
A polite expression of contempt or pity, delivered with a smile. 'He tried to fix it himself, bless his heart.'
Southerners distinguish the two effortlessly. Outsiders regularly miss the second and thank the speaker.
In use
You've been up since four? Bless your heart.
Note: Sincere.
He thought that was a good idea, bless his heart.
Note: Not sincere. The smile is part of the delivery.